Kusukela sisebancane, sonke sifunda okuyisisekelo sendlela yokuxhumana enkundleni yebhola, njengoba kungenye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokwakha iqembu elikhulu elizowina imidlalo.
Nakuba ziningi izindlela ezinhle zokuxhumana nabalingani bakho beqembu, kunezindlela ezithile okufanele uzigweme. Elinye lamaphutha avame ukwenziwa abadlali bebhola ukumemeza bethi 'owami' lapho bethola ibhola.
Lokhu kungase kungabonakali njengenkinga njengoba umdlali esakwazi ukumemeza igama kakhulu ukuze ozakwabo kanye nezimbangi bezwe, kodwa empeleni kunezizathu ezimbalwa ezenza ungakwazi ukusho elami enkundleni yebhola.
Abadlali bebhola abakwazi ukuthi 'okwami' ngoba lokho kungaphazamisa izimbangi zabo ngomlomo ngesikhathi somdlalo futhi kubanike ithuba elihle. Uma kungaphazamisi abamelene nawe, kuvumelekile ukuthi 'yami'.
Namuhla sizokwazisa ukuthi kungani lokhu kunjalo, ukuze ungenzi iphutha elifanayo nezinkulungwane zabanye abadlali ngokuzayo uma ungena enkundleni yebhola.
Kuphambene nemithetho
Njengoba sishilo kafushane ngaphambili, ukusetshenziswa kwemisho efana nethi 'yami' noma 'shiya' kuvame ukusetshenziswa njengendlela yokudlala abadlali namaqembu angewona awezemidlalo.
Ngenxa yalokhu, i-FIFA yavimbela abadlali ekusebenziseni amagama njengohlobo lweqhinga lokuphazamisa enkundleni. Unompempe uvunyelwe ngokomthetho ukuthi axwayise umdlali uma ezama ngamabomu ukuphazamisa ophikisana naye.
Njenganoma yikuphi okubi okwenziwa ebholeni, lokhu kungaholela ekutholeni amakhadi aphuzi noma abomvu, kuye ngokuthi icala lingakanani.
Lo mthetho uthi uyadida, nakuba kungekho lapho emithethweni yomdlalo ekubeka ngokusobala ukuthi awukwazi ukusho okwami emdlalweni webhola, kodwa imithetho icace kakhulu ngokusebenzisa amaqhinga okuphazamisa.
Indlela ejwayeleke kakhulu yokubhekana nalolu hlobo lokubi iwukuthatha i-free kick engaqondile, okusho ukuthi umdlali akakwazi ukudubula noma ashaye igoli ngayo.
Inkulumompikiswano phakathi komdlalo nokukopela izoba ngeyaphakade, njengoba amaqembu akholelwa ukuthi ukuphazamisa kancane noma ukuchitha isikhathi kuyingxenye yokungqubuzana komdlalo nalabo abakholelwa ukuthi kufanele uvinjelwe ngokuphelele ngaphansi kokusongelwa ngezijeziso ezinzima.
Kimi, ibhalansi phakathi kokubili idinga ukushaywa. Isizathu salokhu ukuthi amanye amasu okudlala angasiza emoyeni kanye nokukhanga komdlalo, ngoba akekho ofuna ukuthi igeyimu ihlanzeke phakade.
Sesikushilo lokho, ukuphepha kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi kube phambili kunoma yisiphi isinqumo izinhlangano zikahulumeni ezizenzayo, ngakho-ke uma lokho kusho ukuvinjelwa okuphelele kwegama elithi 'yami' makube njalo.
kungaba yingozi
Nakuba izikhathi eziningi ukungakhulumisani kahle enkundleni yebhola kubangela kuphela amashwa angasho lutho, njengephutha lokuvikela eliholela egolini labaphikisi, kungaba nemiphumela eyingozi uma abadlali bakho behluleka ukuziphatha kahle phakathi nomdlalo.
Uma abanye abadlali (noma ngaphezulu) bememeza bethi 'yami' esikhundleni samagama abo uma kubangwa ibhola, kungase kube nezinkinga, ikakhulukazi kubadlali abancane.
Ebancane abadlali abakwazi kakhulu okukuzungezile futhi bangagxila ebholeni, baphendule lokhu izikhathi ezimbalwa futhi uba neqembu labantu abasha abathi ibhola ngelabo ngaphandle kokuxhumana kahle nabanye.
Lokhu kungase kubangele ukungqubuzana kwekhanda okungadala ukulimala okubi kwabadlali njengokungqubuzana, okufanayo kungenzeka lapho benza i-slide tackle.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi lokhu kuzokwenzeka njalo uma umdlali enza iphutha lokumemeza ethi “wami” ngoba ngeke, lolu hlobo lomcimbi luyivelakancane, kodwa kusengenzeka uma abadlali bakho bengafundi ngendlela efanele. ukuxhumana enkundleni yebhola likanobhutshuzwayo.
Uma uqaphela ukuthi iqembu lengane yakho (noma elakho) alisebenzisi imigomo efanele lapho libekela inselele inselelo yokuba nempahla, kungase kube umqondo omuhle ukukhuluma nomqeqeshi noma nomphathi weqembu ukuze udaba luxazululwe ngendlela efanele.
akucaci
Uma udlula noma uthola ibhola ezinyaweni zakho (noma yikuphi lapho ungalawula khona ibhola), ukucaca kungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu okufanele uzicabangele.
Lokhu kungenzeka ngezindlela eziningi, njengokukhulumela phezulu nangokuzethemba lapho ubanga ukuba nebhola. Lokhu kubalulekile njengoba kufaka ukuzethemba kuwena nozakwenu ukuthi anikwesabi ukubanjwa wumdlalo.
Ukumemeza 'ngokwami' yinto abadlali abaningi abazama ukuyenza, kodwa akunangqondo ukwenza lokho.
Isizathu esikhulu salokhu wukuthi noma ngubani angamemeza athi ‘eyami’ uma efuna ukuthola ibhola futhi lokhu kungadala ukudideka emazingeni akhe.
Kuvamile futhi ukuthi abadlali abamelene nabo bamemeze igama phezulu ukuze bakuntshontshele ibhola (lokhu kubhekwa njengomdlalo, kodwa kusajwayelekile).
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokugwema lokhu ukumemeza isibongo sakho ngokucacile ngangokunokwenzeka lapho ubanga ibhola, isb. 'Smith's'!
Ungase uzibuze ukuthi kungani kungcono ukumemeza isibongo sakho esikhundleni segama lakho lokuqala, futhi isizathu siwukuthi abadlali abaningi eqenjini lakho bangaba negama elifanayo, kodwa mancane amathuba okuthi abadlali ababili babe nesibongo esifanayo (uma yenza, uhlangothi lwakho lungadinga ukuthola uhlelo oluhlukile).
Kungathatha isikhathi ukulahlekelwa eminye yemikhuba abadlali abebeyijwayela eminyakeni edlule, ngakho-ke ngeluleka ukuzijwayeza amagama amasha noma imishwana ezosetshenziswa iqembu lakho phakathi nemidlalo lapho uziqeqesha, njengoba lokhu kuzokwenza abadlali bakho bajwayelane namagama abo kanye namazwi abo. Abalingani beqembu, okwenza ukukhulumisana kube lula kakhulu.
Ngethemba ukuthi lo mhlahlandlela omncane ukusizile ukuthi uqonde ukuthi kungani ungeke uthi 'owami' ebholeni. Kungaba wumthetho odidayo onganakwa, ngakho-ke ngokuzayo uma uziqeqeshela ibhola, hlola ukuthi ozakwenu bayalisebenzisa yini igama ukuxhumana nokukhuluma nomqeqeshi wakho uma kukhona okukukhathazayo ngalokhu.
