Ukususela ebuntwaneni, sonke sifunda iziseko zendlela yokunxibelelana kwibala lebhola, njengoko yenye yezona ndlela zibalulekileyo zokudala iqela elikhulu eliya kuphumelela imidlalo.
Ngelixa kukho iindlela ezininzi ezintle zokunxibelelana nabalingane bakho beqela, kukwakho ezinye iindlela ekufuneka uzithintele. Enye yezona mpazamo zixhaphakileyo ezenziwa ngabadlali bebhola kukukhwaza bathi 'yam' xa befumana ibhola.
Oku kusenokungabonakali njengengxaki njengoko umdlali usenako ukukhwaza ilizwi ngokwaneleyo ukuze abadlali beqela lakhe kunye nabachasi beve, kodwa eneneni kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba ungatsho eyam kwibala lebhola.
Abadlali bebhola ekhatywayo abanakuthi 'eyam' kuba oku kunokubaphazamisa ngamazwi abo bachasene nabo ngexesha lomdlalo kwaye ke kubanika inzuzo. Ukuba ayiphazamisi abachasi bakho, ivumelekile ukuba ithi 'yam'.
Namhlanje siza kukwazisa ukuba kutheni oku kunjalo, ukuze ungayenzi impazamo efanayo namawakawaka abanye abadlali kwixesha elizayo xa unyathela kwibala lebhola ekhatywayo.
Ichasene nemithetho
Njengoko besichazile ngokufutshane ngaphambili, ukusetyenziswa kwamabinzana afana nelithi 'yam' okanye 'shiya' kudla ngokusetyenziswa njengendlela yokungcakaza ngabadlali namaqela angengawo ezemidlalo.
Ngenxa yoku, iFIFA yabanqanda abadlali ekusebenziseni amagama njengohlobo lweqhinga lokuphazamiseka ebaleni. Usompempe uvumelekile ngokusemthethweni ukuba alumkise umdlali ukuba ngabom uzama ukuphazamisa umdlali ochasayo.
Njengayo nayiphi na intlonti eyenziwe kwibhola ekhatywayo, oku kunokubangela amakhadi atyheli okanye abomvu ngokuxhomekeke kubunzima bolwaphulo-mthetho.
Lo mthetho ngandlel’ ithile uyabhida, nangona kungekho ndawo kwimithetho yomdlalo echaza ngokucacileyo ukuba awukwazi ukuthi yam kumdlalo webhola ekhatywayo, kodwa imithetho icace ngakumbi ngokusetyenziswa kobuchule bokuphazamisa.
Eyona ndlela ixhaphakileyo yokujongana nolu hlobo lwempazamo kukunika isohlwayo esingakhatyelwa zipalini, nto leyo ethetha ukuba umdlali akanakudubula okanye afake amanqaku ngayo.
Ingxoxo phakathi kongcakazo kunye nokuqhatha iya kuba ngunaphakade, njengoko amaqela akholelwa ukuba ukuphazamiseka okungakhathaliyo okanye ukuchitha ixesha kuyinxalenye nje yomdlalo wokungqubana nabo bakholelwa ukuba kufuneka uvalwe phantsi kwesoyikiso sezohlwayo eziqatha.
Kum, ulungelelwaniso phakathi kwezi zibini lufuna ukubethelwa. Isizathu salokhu kukuba ezinye iindlela zomdlalo zinokuba luncedo kumoya jikelele kunye nesibheno somdlalo, njengoko kungekho mntu ufuna ukuba umdlalo ucoceke ngonaphakade.
Oko kuthethiweyo, ukhuseleko kufuneka lusoloko luphambili kuso nasiphi na isigqibo esithathwa ngamaqumrhu karhulumente, ke ukuba oko kuthetha ukuvala igama elithi 'yam' ngokuthe ngqo, makube njalo.
Kunokuba yingozi
Ngelixa ixesha elininzi ukungabikho konxibelelwano kwibala lebhola kuphela kubangela amashwa amancinci, njengempazamo yokuzikhusela ekhokelela kumgomo womchasi, kunokubakho iziphumo eziyingozi ukuba abadlali bakho abakwazi ukuziphatha kakuhle ngexesha lomdlalo.
Ukuba abadlali abambalwa (okanye ngaphezulu) bayakhwaza bathi 'yam' endaweni yamagama abo xa kukhutshiswana ibhola, kunokubakho iingxaki, ngakumbi kubadlali abancinci.
Bebancinci, abadlali abaqapheli kakhulu abo babangqongileyo kwaye banokugxuphuleka ebholeni, bandise oku amaxesha ambalwa, kwaye uneqela labancinci abathi ibhola yeyabo ngaphandle kokunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo omnye nomnye.
Oku kunokubangela ukungqubana kwentloko okunokubangela ukulimala kakhulu kubadlali abanjengokungqubuzana, okufanayo kunokwenzeka xa usenza isilayidi.
Oku akuthethi ukuba oku kuya kwenzeka ngalo lonke ixesha umdlali esenza impazamo yokukhwaza athi 'wam' kuba engavumi, olu hlobo lomsitho lunqabile, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba abadlali bakho abafundi ngendlela echanekileyo. ukunxibelelana ebaleni.
Ukuba uphawula ukuba iqela lomntwana wakho (okanye elakho) alisebenzisi magama achanekileyo xa likhuphisana ngokuba nolawulo, kusenokuba licebo elilungileyo ukuwuphakamisa lo mbandela kumqeqeshi okanye kumphathi weqela ukuze loo mbandela usonjululwe ngokufanelekileyo.
ayicacanga
Xa udlula okanye ufumana ibhola ezinyaweni zakho (okanye naphi na apho ungalawula khona ibhola ekhatywayo), ukucaca yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo.
Oku kunokwenzeka ngeendlela ezininzi, njengokuthethela phezulu nangokuzithemba xa ubanga ukuba unebhola. Oku kubalulekile njengoko kwenza ukuzithemba kuwe nakumahlakani akho ukuba anikoyiki ukubanjwa kulo mdlalo.
Ukukhwaza 'ngokwam' yinto abadlali abaninzi abazama ukuyenza, kodwa akukho sizathu sokwenza oko.
Esona sizathu soku kukuba nabani na angakhwaza athi ‘eyam’ xa efuna ukufumana ibhola kwaye oku kunokubangela ukubhideka phakathi kwamaqela abo.
Kukwaxhaphakile ukuba abadlali abachasayo bakhwaze igama ngokuvakalayo ukuze bebe ibhola kuwe (oku kujongelwa phantsi njengomdlalo, kodwa kuseyinto eqhelekileyo).
Eyona ndlela yokuthintela oku kukukhwaza ngokucacileyo ifani yakho kangangoko unako xa ubanga ibhola, umz., 'Smith's'!
Usenokuba uyazibuza ukuba kutheni kungcono ukukhwaza ifani yakho endaweni yegama lakho, kwaye isizathu kukuba abadlali abaninzi kwiqela lakho banokuba negama elifanayo, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba abadlali ababini babe nefani efanayo (ukuba , icala lakho kunokufuneka lifumane inkqubo eyahlukileyo).
Kungathatha ixesha ukuphulukana neminye imikhwa abadlali abayifumene kule minyaka idlulileyo, ke ndikucebisa ukuba uziqhelise amagama amatsha okanye amabinzana aza kusetyenziswa liqela lakho ngexesha lemidlalo xa uqhuba uqeqesho, njengoko oku kuya kuqhelanisa abadlali bakho ngamagama kunye namazwi abo. yamaqabane eqela, yenza unxibelelwano lube lula ngakumbi.
Ndiyathemba ukuba esi sikhokelo sincinci sikuncede ukuba uqonde ukuba kutheni unokuthi 'eyam' kwibhola ekhatywayo. Ingangumthetho obhidayo ongahoywanga, ngoko ke kwixesha elizayo xa uzilolongela ibhola ekhatywayo, jonga ukuba abadlali beqela lakho bayalisebenzisa eli gama ukunxibelelana nokuthetha nomqeqeshi wakho ukuba unento ekuxhalabisayo malunga noku.
